Book Review: In the Name of Family

Reviewed by Chelsey Tucker

An authentic exploration of love, devotion, and unconventional family dynamics during an era of conformity

In the Name of Family delves into the lives of two central characters: Ruth, a conservatively-raised Jewish woman, and Tony, an Italian Catholic. Their journey begins when Tony musters up the courage to ask Ruth out on a date one day while at work at The Hoffman Shoe Factory in the year 1950. Over the next few months, the more time spent together, the deeper their bond grows. However, their lives take an unexpected turn when Ruth becomes pregnant and they both must reveal long-held secrets from their pasts.

This narrative successfully explores the intricate tapestry of love and life. It unfolds against the backdrop of a conformist era. In the face of societal norms, Ruth and Tony defy conventions to discover love, happiness, and joy while trying to create an environment where family comes first. In the Name of Family vividly illustrates how children within the same families can lead radically different lives based on how the people around them navigate pivotal life moments and family conflicts.

Ruth’s upbringing, deeply rooted in conservative Jewish values, encounters challenges that her brothers do not, “As a female in my family, I haven’t been able to make too many decisions for myself.” The Orthodox Jewish community’s cultural norms and her parents’ unwavering dedication to tradition make her journey all the more complex. In stark contrast, Tony is blessed with parents who are concerned primarily with his well-being and happiness. The narrative unfolds as Tony and Ruth strive to forge a life together, guided by love and a family-first philosophy, all the while attempting to heal the wounds of their pasts.

The narrative navigates the passage of time by highlighting the month and year at the beginning of every chapter; readers are never left feeling lost or confused. The story cleverly employs well-placed cliffhangers too, leaving the reader desperate for the next move. The characters are well-developed with distinct personalities and embroiled in their own high-stakes situations: some of which are life or death, making it easy for us to become emotionally invested. 

In the Name of Family exudes authenticity, precisely catering to the desires of readers interested in this time & place. It weaves in elements such as the presence of Italian mobsters, like Joe Bonanno, in New York during the 1950s and how dangerous it was to associate with men like him. The story also highlights Orthodox Jewish ideology, including excommunication as a consequence for bringing shame upon the family: “You have made your choices, and you are dead to me! Get out! Get out of my house and don’t ever come back. You are not my daughter.” The narrative delves into themes of values and religion while defying stereotypes, offering a unique perspective on a life that deviates from expected norms.

In the Name of Family beautifully illustrates that even amidst the most tumultuous and challenging lives, happiness can flourish. The story stands as a testament to the enduring power of love and family bonds, offering a resounding message of hope and resilience.

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